How do motivations play into the world of collecting rare whistles ??
Why do YOU collect whistles ?? How does this affect buyers remorse ??
Probably the absolute worse poison ?? >>>> "my whistles are me" — Paula Cole sang in her song ME. about not being her song, her house, her car…. That 'they are just stops along the way'. Can we take a lesson from this song ??
When we identify ourselves by what we own rather than who we are as a person, we are straying a long way from happiness. Let's face it. Fires occur, floods, theft, health. Any one of these or other factors could cause years of eclectic collecting to go up in smoke and then who would we be ??
And how would you feel if a very important whistle became available and you missed it ?? Like a part of YOU was missed ?? Ouch !!! AW, gotta let it go….
You are more than that whistle….This is how deep it can go into our psyche if we cross that line from fun to taking it personal.
Now the flip side ?? Buying a whistle, thinking it is really YOU and then finding out it isn't YOU after all ?? Maybe it's a fake or more 'common' than you thought it was or worse yet…has a defect and is damaged goods !!!! Whoah !!! Now we certainly don't want what we own to define us do we ??
Buyers remorse big time. Why all the fuss >> Why so sssserious ????? It's NOT the collectibles that define you — not who you are… they are just whistles…..
Like spending, motives affect us and can cause buyer's remorse. Another factor is whether we work together or compete.
Are you a team player ??? How is this involved in buyers remorse ?? …Hmmmm….. tomorrow….




Users This Month : 600
Total views : 147707